I'm in a bad situation. Help.
oh god please help me to be strong and please show me a way out of this darkness of hell.
i have a group assignment to hand in this monday (tomorrow). and we only started to take the effort to do it last wednesday. but since we got not enough time, seeing that we have another assignment to hand in on last thursday so we decided that we would divide the workload. there's four people in a group and four questions to be done so fair enough, each of us have to answer one question although the marks allocation vary from question to question.
so i took the innitiative and told them to hand in their answers to me by saturday. by that time, one group member, lets name her T smsed me and told me that she will send in today. as for the rest of the other two, they remained silent about it.
i did my part which carry 35 marks over 100, so i went for shopping just now. during my mindless, impulsive buying spree, another group member, S smsed me and told me that she dont know how to do the question and asked me which chapter she should refer to. by that time i was quite agonized by the fact that all of them didnt even take the initiative to send me the answers yesterday (saturday) so that i will have enough time to go through the answers.
eurgh, its a goddamn case study who the hell need chapters to refer to! just relate it back to the case and elaborate. not to fugging mention that she or rather ALL OF THEM BUGGERS didnt even attend the class when the lecturer was discussing the assignment with us. its a policy from the lecturer that he wont entertain anybody after the discussion in class.
anyways she even dare to tell me that she wanted to do other questions because its easier for her and she doesnt have much time left before she got work at night, a dj if you asked. well then i told her its impossible because all of us were assigned a question each and most of us already did their parts. she bloody fugging concluded that "well, i told you i cant do the question earlier. then how?" the thing is, shes pointing a finger at me because i bloody assigned the question for her.
i mean hey knowledge and answers dont fall on trees. you have to gain them, try to understand and take the initiative to understand them. WTF.
bottom line is, when i came back from my shopping, there's NOTHING, not a single bug in my mailbox, no one send me their answers. i pandai pandailah think that they will send me cuz its already sunday night for crying out loud! i was thinking okay, fine give them another day to complete it.
i was furious then.
first of all, i was the one who took the initiative to compile everything and to fucking print the whole assignment out even my printer was totally screwed up after thursday's assignment. no one helped me and no one understands my situation.
the bloody thing is, i told them by saturday to send me their answers and even if they just do it just-for-the-heck-of-it, i can still have sufficient time to go through it and correct the mistakes, which i think will be TONS of them because all three of them did not, i repeat, DID NOT go for the discussion.
even the assignment due date is tomorrow (monday), i dont expect to get answers slap in my face in the morning, meaning i will have to be a damn cow and do all the rushing and printing and handing in the assignment for you cunts. which also means that i will have to skip 10am class so that i can rush for the deadline.
i was so furious i even thought of just hand in my part and said that they all are being lazy arses and basically complain to the lecturer. BUT i risk of losing the friendship which they are the people in my major and mind you my class is very small especially when you enter into year two/three. i will risk creating an unpleasant environment to study in for myself. then again, it will also trouble the lecturer.
on the other hand, if i were to put up with their shit, i will be at the loosing end. i will, somehow do the answers all over again, be in agony and angst ridden for the rest of the week/day(s).
help.
oh god please help me to be strong and please show me a way out of this darkness of hell.
i have a group assignment to hand in this monday (tomorrow). and we only started to take the effort to do it last wednesday. but since we got not enough time, seeing that we have another assignment to hand in on last thursday so we decided that we would divide the workload. there's four people in a group and four questions to be done so fair enough, each of us have to answer one question although the marks allocation vary from question to question.
so i took the innitiative and told them to hand in their answers to me by saturday. by that time, one group member, lets name her T smsed me and told me that she will send in today. as for the rest of the other two, they remained silent about it.
i did my part which carry 35 marks over 100, so i went for shopping just now. during my mindless, impulsive buying spree, another group member, S smsed me and told me that she dont know how to do the question and asked me which chapter she should refer to. by that time i was quite agonized by the fact that all of them didnt even take the initiative to send me the answers yesterday (saturday) so that i will have enough time to go through the answers.
eurgh, its a goddamn case study who the hell need chapters to refer to! just relate it back to the case and elaborate. not to fugging mention that she or rather ALL OF THEM BUGGERS didnt even attend the class when the lecturer was discussing the assignment with us. its a policy from the lecturer that he wont entertain anybody after the discussion in class.
anyways she even dare to tell me that she wanted to do other questions because its easier for her and she doesnt have much time left before she got work at night, a dj if you asked. well then i told her its impossible because all of us were assigned a question each and most of us already did their parts. she bloody fugging concluded that "well, i told you i cant do the question earlier. then how?" the thing is, shes pointing a finger at me because i bloody assigned the question for her.
i mean hey knowledge and answers dont fall on trees. you have to gain them, try to understand and take the initiative to understand them. WTF.
bottom line is, when i came back from my shopping, there's NOTHING, not a single bug in my mailbox, no one send me their answers. i pandai pandailah think that they will send me cuz its already sunday night for crying out loud! i was thinking okay, fine give them another day to complete it.
i was furious then.
first of all, i was the one who took the initiative to compile everything and to fucking print the whole assignment out even my printer was totally screwed up after thursday's assignment. no one helped me and no one understands my situation.
the bloody thing is, i told them by saturday to send me their answers and even if they just do it just-for-the-heck-of-it, i can still have sufficient time to go through it and correct the mistakes, which i think will be TONS of them because all three of them did not, i repeat, DID NOT go for the discussion.
even the assignment due date is tomorrow (monday), i dont expect to get answers slap in my face in the morning, meaning i will have to be a damn cow and do all the rushing and printing and handing in the assignment for you cunts. which also means that i will have to skip 10am class so that i can rush for the deadline.
i was so furious i even thought of just hand in my part and said that they all are being lazy arses and basically complain to the lecturer. BUT i risk of losing the friendship which they are the people in my major and mind you my class is very small especially when you enter into year two/three. i will risk creating an unpleasant environment to study in for myself. then again, it will also trouble the lecturer.
on the other hand, if i were to put up with their shit, i will be at the loosing end. i will, somehow do the answers all over again, be in agony and angst ridden for the rest of the week/day(s).
i'm really in a rotten mood right now, i could use a lil cheering up.
i really dont know what to do now. who the hell understands my situation? and who can help me now? :(help.
sometimes i think that i got so bloody sick of this. i want out, i need out. and nobody gives a shit about it.
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10:43 PM
5 Comments:
haha. damn those bitches.
i think you should just bear with it. can't really do much at this stage. next time don't pick them as your group mates lor.
feel better man.
sze ning
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Anonymous, at October 12, 2004 12:19 PM
Hope everything turned out alright. People can be really anal. One of the reasons I like to work alone. Managing a group is like trying to get a bunch of kindergarden kids to line up for the bus. Total chaos, bruises and broken teeth at times too...
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The Unknown, at October 13, 2004 9:17 PM
Fuck group work. Individual assignments are so much better.
or next time you want grouop mates state specifically, no whiners, losers, bums or retards need apply.
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justine, at October 13, 2004 9:35 PM
Hope that everything is alright for you now. I've been there before, ended up doing the whole assignment all by myself just so that it won't jeopardize my marks.
If possible, opt for individual assignment the next time around or just pick other group mates. >_<
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Anonymous, at October 13, 2004 11:09 PM
Lik says:
hey thanks peeps. much better now. just another groupie asgnmt to go then im off with my finals. garh. anyways the other two contributed except for S, she's gonna get it. my lecturer asked each of us to fill in this evaluation form. all fair and square i guess. but she went missing today, not sure abt her reacitons though, no more comflicts i hope. bashing is badd.
a reminder, you ppl kasi tau siape you la. yah you whos using TIMEnet. :P
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Anonymous, at October 14, 2004 1:18 AM
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