Argue me.
This struck me when i was taking my shower just now.
while the birds are chirping in the morning, my beauty sleep was rudely interrupted when someone was knocking impatiently and shouting. at first i tried to ignore it but then my patience wore off as i slept at probably almost 4 hours ago and didnt have enough sleep. feeling irritated, i got off the bed, opened up the door only to find this chinese twins staying in the same apartment unit were making those unruly sound pollution. kaninamachowhai. other bad habits like not washing up the dishes/pots for almost a month, leaving the tap running, leaving the used dental floss on the basin and sometimes not flushing after using the toilet... etc. those i can tolerate (well, at times i do admit that it annoys the hell outta me) but when it comes to proper beauty sleep, i want to kill them. i wanna roar at them skinny bamboo sticks and let the wind carry them back to shanghai.
anyway i went back to sleep while one of them still trying to wake up the other half in the room in order to open up the door. why didnt she just bring her key? and as for the other half inside, she was knocking so loudly, takkan you cannot hear mah! [note: i keep using the other half is because i dunno how the heck to identify who is who. twins mah!] even i can hear it on the other end of the apartment. finally when the corridor became quiet, they started making noise again. this time one of them were throwing angry words at each other. yiddy yiddy yaya gibby gibby jaja.. ok, i made that up. it was actually worse than that pseudo nursery rhyme.
im wondering, how would you deal the conflict with your other half. or how you would settle the arguement. imagine this is someone that is close to you. probably your other half or your family. give the cold treatment? argue until you win? ignore? be diplomatic or just give in?
well then, do drop some comments in. i am late for class liao. toodles!

2 Comments:
the best wait for the other party to cool down. dont argue in anger. makes matter worst. people cannot think rationally when they are angry. if you think you are in the right position, talk, discuss about it. well, that's what me n hubby usually do. :)
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Anonymous, at June 21, 2005 3:52 PM
yeap, can't always fight fire with fire,
that won't lead to something good.
that's why in relationships of any kind whatsoever, we have to have give and take,
it's damn important yo!
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Anonymous, at June 23, 2005 1:05 PM
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